Growing up in a family of six children with both a mother and a father, I always craved attention from my parents. All I wanted was the love and care that children typically receive like being taken shopping or having them show up on visitation days. Unfortunately, my parents were unable to fulfill these desires. Nevertheless, I learned to accept them for who they were and love them unconditionally.
In 2009, I was given an incredible opportunity to join the Youth Corps Homes, specifically Mengo Home. As a young individual, I felt anxious about living with people I didn’t know. However, to my amazement, these mentors became my true parents. They provided guidance, and counseling, and showered me with love and care. They believed in me, instilled confidence in me, and guided me in making important decisions. This newfound support gave me the courage to believe in myself and to dream big. In 2015, I left the home and resettled with a relative in Luweero.
Initially, I cried because I knew I would miss the home, the mentors, and the new sisters I had made. However, I soon realized that their love for me didn’t end with my departure. The mentors continued to visit me at home and school, encouraging me to work hard. I understood that their visits were a testament to their love and high expectations for me. Motivated not to disappoint them, I worked tirelessly, and by God’s grace, I achieved excellent results in my O’ level and A level. After completing my Senior 6, I was allowed to become a mentor in the Youth Corps Homes. Overwhelmed with gratitude, I knew that I could give back with the knowledge and experiences I gained from the home while still benefiting from ongoing mentorship.
As a mentor, I have come to understand that love is at the core of effective mentorship. Without love, we cannot truly guide and support children from diverse backgrounds and with different personalities. It is crucial to not only pray for them but also show them the love of God, for it is love that brings acceptance and eventual transformation. Love is not only spoken but also demonstrated through action. I will forever be grateful for the love shown to me by the Youth Corps since my childhood. This experience has taught me to love and help others in need, no matter how small the gesture may be, while also praying with them. In doing so, we reflect the love of Jesus to His people. Long live Cornerstone.
Joy Nasasira
Mentor, Lungujja Girls Home
Youth Corps Former Mentee.
